Transplant Australia

Breadcrumb Navigation

• Stories & Experience
• Living Donor
• Vic Ward - A gift to my stepdaughter

Vic Ward - A gift to my stepdaughter

My Stepdaughter, Sue had been diagnosed with renal problems at age 18, and at 24 began dialysis for the next five years. She worked full time for the Red Cross for four years of her dialysis period but due to her declining health changed to part time work for the last year of dialysis so she could have the treatment during the day on her none work days instead of after work. The Red Cross were wonderfully supportive and understanding of her condition and Sue is still working there today.

When my wife Carol and I visited Sue at the Dialysis Unit, I always felt sad for Sue and the other patients who had no choice but to undertake this procedure 3 times a week if they wanted to survive. As well as dialysis, there are regular clinic check up visits and other medical procedures to face from time to time including operations for new fistulas, the insertion point for dialysis needles when the other fails.

There are also the daily assortment of medications to take, and various other health issues which can occur for this condition. I was always extremely humbled by Sues unselfish, uncomplaining nature and her courage, despite the handicap she had endured for so long. There is a long waiting list for donor kidneys and one person in Australia dies every week waiting (source, Kidney Health Australia).

Due to the long period on dialysis, Sues treatment was not working as effectively anymore and her health was deteriorating. Without Sues knowledge, I asked to be tested for my suitability as a living donor. As is required by medical ethics, I was referred to an independent Nephrologist who explained what was involved.

I underwent a series of tests over the next 6 months until they were reasonably sure that I was a compatible donor. Sue was then informed about the possibility of a transplant and was overwhelmed by the news. Further tests for both of us then ensued and a period of anxiety followed while we waited for the final test results which were ok. All systems go!

Our operations were performed on 25th November 2002 at Royal Perth Hospital and were successful with no problems. I was discharged 3 days later, and Sue about a week after that. I would like to pay tribute to all the Hospital and Clinic Staff in the various fields for their support, care and skills in giving kidney patients a better life. These wonderful people go largely unheralded for their dedication and for the lives they save. Thank you!

In November 2003, at age 30, Sue was married to her long time supportive partner Justin and to see them both so radiant and happy on their Wedding Day made it all worthwhile. I still feel elated seeing the difference it has made to the quality of Sues life. My wish for Sue and Justin is that they have many happy years ahead of them. I have absolutely no regrets at my decision to donate. It is the most rewarding thing I have ever done in my life and I would have no hesitation doing it over again.